Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Who Resolves Your Life? YOU!! : Change Happens By Choice

Who knows what the path of life will hold for us?

Growing up, I realize that human beings really go through some phases in their lifetime that they don't have power over. But then no one was born ready. Not even a crystal ball, fortune teller, or any other psychic being would have the answer. To sail through this trip called life, I envision that you must have faith in your own personal strength, pursue your own dreams hoping they will become your reality, and never give up. The only thing that comes to you without effort is old age. Great things can only be welded when men and mountains meet. Winning isn't everything but wanting to win is.


The message is clear; you and only you are responsible for your thoughts, ideas, imagination, health, well being, wealth, life style, economy, happiness, peace, your past, present and future. The more you are willing to give, the more you will be able to get.


And here's a key point. Your education, knowledge, skills and experience all are investments in your ability to contribute a value for which you can be paid. But they are like any other investments. They are highly speculative. Your goal is to organize your life in such a way that you enjoy a mighty income, a high standard of living, and that you are the master of your economic destiny rather than a victim of changing economic times.


They say that time waits for no one and that includes YOU and ME. Scientifically, it is well accepted that how we feel has a direct effect on our body, mind, personality and how we carry ourselves through the day. Positive thinking is no fast food. Be who you want to be fully, in this moment.


Though most of us think we will live until we are old, many of us won't. Don't put off your dreams until tomorrow. Don't decide to change your life tomorrow. Do it today, right now. This is the moment that you have a control on. Be in charge of you and choose to be the best possible person you can be this moment. Be more loving in this moment, more forgiving, kinder, more positive and generous. Be present with people, in this moment. Give more than you take, in this moment.


Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished: “if you’re alive, it isn’t”.


--RocKvaRuN

Thursday, July 29, 2010

What Grief Can Taught You

Each and every condition in life brings some new knowledge to apiece, and thus, experiences are the way we fledge, the way we stand, and the way we endure and survive in an all too changing world. Memories are the most cherished and valuable gifts you will ever have and I believe, anything which is past is memorable.

One thing which always attached to me since I left home was “Loneliness”. Nothing like I am lack of something. I have everything a content man would need. I have an endearing family, I have made many friends; some of them are great pals. If my family gives me strength to come through, these people really give me sense of friendship and kinship; what friends are. But my loneliness never left me. She/he (whatever sounds better to you) always come back to walk with me, fly with me, ride with me, and to sleep besides me. Ahh, now I wish to call it “she” for sure. ;-)

I admit, I am not aware what exactly I want to happen in my life at this point of the time. There are many items pondering into my “To Do” list. I think I need a change and happiness. Rest will follow. Luck favors the prepared mind. I was searching and preparing for happiness but could not find any. Bewildered, I sat back at my office system and googled the word 'Happiness' and it gave me more than a million of them in just 0.14 seconds. Can you beat google? ;-)

Most of the time, I think we are not conscious of what we say, do or read. We all have certain sameness to some part of each day. Getting up in the morning, turn on the news, read the newspaper, and then start the rest of the day. It would be wonderful if the morning information had a lot of good news, something that left us with good and hopeful feelings as we venture out into our day, but I can't say that I see it often.

There are always times when we feel like the world has lost its colors. When we get so lonely and dejected. When we cry. When you feel that the rest of the world is happy and you are not. No movement. No charm. When these times happen, do not succumb to the temptations of giving up. Life is a Leveller. Yes, to live is to suffer and the only way to be happy is to suffer willingly. Perhaps then, we can become the sovereign of our own destiny.

I wish all readers Good Luck, God speed in all their future endeavors.
--RocKvaRuN

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Encountering Yourself – “Unconsciously”

I believe that within us we all have the perfect content of our own best friend and our own worst enemy. Nature makes us think and act consciously. How about encountering yourself unconsciously?

When I say conscious and unconscious, I do not mean that there are any fixed boundaries between the two. There are none. It depends on you whether you are less conscious or more conscious. Anger makes you less conscious (read unconscious) while deceasing life of yours or your soul mate makes you more conscious. But believe me when you are in presence of unconscious, so to speak, nothing could be more familiar……

What you see when unconscious is your reality, but society has created so many layers in order that you will not be aware of it. You will find a different individual all together. Then you cannot deceive yourself; you will certainly know what you are. If you want to create massive changes within your life, you have to change what is acceptable to you.

Whatever your current position is, there is most certainly room for advancement. Focus on long term growth & accomplishments. I reckon, at the end of the day, you want to go back to bed and be proud of what you have done. Focus on that reason, and while you are at it, might as well make it a joyful, pleasant experience.

There are tons of help available out there, but it's up to you to glue all the pieces together to figure out your own path. If there was one such piece of advice that could resolve all issues in one shot, then everyone would succeed……Such is not life as we know……

……Close your eyes and encounter the unconscious…… So next time you stuck with something, remember, It isn't coming from outside, it's coming from inside. You see, motivation can take a 180 turn simply by changing your perception.

The way I see it, it's a little bit like work, but that's why you've got an unconscious zone ;-)…… Smile and be happy ……

--RocKvaRuN

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Flight Plan: In pursuit of happiness

What is that one thing that you want in your life? Think about your one desire and the first thought that pops into your head as you open your eyes in the morning…….

You are right!! Opening eyes with a smile and purpose is what all of us desire. You can always find someone richer, someone with a bigger car, someone with a nicer house, and someone better looking around you. Trying to find happiness with rivalry is impossible. We need to focus on the right venues in search for the elusive happiness. For me, there is only one invariable thing in this world. We all have 24 hours per day; nothing more, nothing less. No one has an advantage over another. Think about it. It’s all about how you manage your time and how you perceive its use.

Make your Time and Money work for you. File a Flight Plan.

The real secret of success consists of three major factors: First, you must be absolutely clear about your happiness flight’s destination. Determine exactly what it is that you want to achieve. Secondly, “take off” toward your goal with no guarantees of success, and then lastly make continual course rectifications and betterment until you finally succeed. The greatest experiences of your life are still to be experienced.

Believe in yourself. This is a great time to be alive. Make more money now. Yield highest income of your life. Best days of your life still lie ahead of you. Justify your presence.

How do you get what you want? It’s simple; all you have to do is to have a plan! And having a plan isn’t enough…..It has to be a Flight Plan….Not just giving lip service to excellence, but putting every part of yourself into achieving it...

I am “taking off!”

--RocKvaRuN