Friday, December 9, 2011
Begging can't solve problems. That feeling of helplessness is a killer. Cultivate the ability to act and the capacity to suffer. There are only two kinds of failures: Those who think and never do, and those who do and never think. Talking positively to ourselves will increase our self esteem and confidence, resulting in a total change of our approach and personality.
Enough running away. Hasn't it been long enough??
Do you know when you face these problems in your life and attack them head on; you become stronger and will grow spiritually?? Do you know when you face your fears; those fears (most of them) go away??
To fail without putting in the efforts is not justified, but failure in itself can never be wrong. Champions accept failure as part of the process of winning. They know there is no sunrise without sunset. There is no life without death. And there is no success without failures. Albert Einstein said "It's not that I'm so smart, it's just that I stay with problems longer".
One of the most important things to value in life is the right to be authentic self. Make it your daily routine to meditate on it, and feel good about it. Why do you care what people think of you? One of the highest places you can get to is being independent of the good opinions of other people and being yourself. It takes learning to love ourselves and what we do, as we are sometimes and I know, I know, it's not easy but we can do it.
If I can do it, you can too.
Value your freedom and discover your passion. It begins with your thoughts and emotions and is brought out through your actions. What would it mean to light the world around you with great hope, desire, and possibility? When you change just one life, you start to change the whole world.
Start with yourself!!!
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Growing up, I was a firm believer in the power of one's self to command his own life. Most people's feelings and thoughts about themselves fluctuate somewhat based on their daily experiences. Success depends much upon using your time wisely - - by planning and setting priorities. Time is worth more than money, and by killing time, we are killing our own chances of success.
Every search begins with beginner's luck.
Think of this way. Is it really nothing happening in your life or is it that you are trying really hard for anything to happen. Self belief is like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets. Remember, the great aim of education is not knowledge, but “action" and a vigorous determination to use your unused assets. Learning is an active process. We learn by actions. Greatness is in being responsible, and doing what is expected of you. Life takes place in a decision.
Being in Peace – Real Peace – Is the second-best thing in the world. I know what you guys are upto ;-) :-p …………Well, the best thing in the world is power and freedom as the world keeps trying to win back. But no one can make you do anything unless you let them. Know that in life, there are no victims - only choices. The question is - will you?
Peace does not mean and command to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of peace. Create a picture of where you want to be. Think of the highest peak you can reach. You win with character not characters. Does that mean if we acquire a negative attitude, whether by design or by default, we are stuck with it? Of course not. Can we change? Yes. Is it easy? Absolutely not.
Every search ends with the victor’s being severely tested.
Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now!
Monday, January 3, 2011
Loss of support, deadlines, final warnings, drastic change, and impending doom make things happen. All these constraints push us into the third essential dimension of Got-To-Do-It. Ideas take whatever time they take. Especially, when we have emotionally invested in the outcome.
Life takes you on different paths, not realizing what you already have and what you are willing to lose. 2K10 started with a disaster and the rest of it is no different. No matter how much I invest in each day, every morning I wake up burst. I know what my readers are up to. But then nobody can be right all of the time :). I never stop dreaming though ;-)
I remember saying it once to a mortal (he he), I know he can reckon the tag as well as the gag. “Each of us has much more hidden inside us than we have had a chance to explore. Unless we create an environment that enables us to discover the limits of our potential, we will never know what we have inside of us”.
Realizing victory is obtainable even though we do suffer greatly, by surviving our devastations and adversities, in the process, we may know that we are over comers and built stronger to withstand the next hurdle whenever it may come and with more compassionating to others around us. Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and know that everything in this life has a purpose.
Time to shift into reverse. It's 2K11. And it’s time to look at what's really driving your success and failures, people around you and make some important changes, right now. Beautiful people do not just happen. The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and more importantly enjoyed and have found their way out of the depths. Keep your team down to minimal players. Less is more. These persons have an appreciation, responsiveness, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.
I have said it earlier. I say it again. “Hold on to sky”. The birds do it, the bees do it. And now, let’s do it.
Feel the Noise - Dream out loud
(A catalyst for everyone, courageous enough to chase their dreams)
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Who knows what the path of life will hold for us?
Growing up, I realize that human beings really go through some phases in their lifetime that they don't have power over. But then no one was born ready. Not even a crystal ball, fortune teller, or any other psychic being would have the answer. To sail through this trip called life, I envision that you must have faith in your own personal strength, pursue your own dreams hoping they will become your reality, and never give up. The only thing that comes to you without effort is old age. Great things can only be welded when men and mountains meet. Winning isn't everything but wanting to win is.
The message is clear; you and only you are responsible for your thoughts, ideas, imagination, health, well being, wealth, life style, economy, happiness, peace, your past, present and future. The more you are willing to give, the more you will be able to get.
And here's a key point. Your education, knowledge, skills and experience all are investments in your ability to contribute a value for which you can be paid. But they are like any other investments. They are highly speculative. Your goal is to organize your life in such a way that you enjoy a mighty income, a high standard of living, and that you are the master of your economic destiny rather than a victim of changing economic times.
They say that time waits for no one and that includes YOU and ME. Scientifically, it is well accepted that how we feel has a direct effect on our body, mind, personality and how we carry ourselves through the day. Positive thinking is no fast food. Be who you want to be fully, in this moment.
Though most of us think we will live until we are old, many of us won't. Don't put off your dreams until tomorrow. Don't decide to change your life tomorrow. Do it today, right now. This is the moment that you have a control on. Be in charge of you and choose to be the best possible person you can be this moment. Be more loving in this moment, more forgiving, kinder, more positive and generous. Be present with people, in this moment. Give more than you take, in this moment.
Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished: “if you’re alive, it isn’t”.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
One thing which always attached to me since I left home was “Loneliness”. Nothing like I am lack of something. I have everything a content man would need. I have an endearing family, I have made many friends; some of them are great pals. If my family gives me strength to come through, these people really give me sense of friendship and kinship; what friends are. But my loneliness never left me. She/he (whatever sounds better to you) always come back to walk with me, fly with me, ride with me, and to sleep besides me. Ahh, now I wish to call it “she” for sure. ;-)
I admit, I am not aware what exactly I want to happen in my life at this point of the time. There are many items pondering into my “To Do” list. I think I need a change and happiness. Rest will follow. Luck favors the prepared mind. I was searching and preparing for happiness but could not find any. Bewildered, I sat back at my office system and googled the word 'Happiness' and it gave me more than a million of them in just 0.14 seconds. Can you beat google? ;-)
Most of the time, I think we are not conscious of what we say, do or read. We all have certain sameness to some part of each day. Getting up in the morning, turn on the news, read the newspaper, and then start the rest of the day. It would be wonderful if the morning information had a lot of good news, something that left us with good and hopeful feelings as we venture out into our day, but I can't say that I see it often.
There are always times when we feel like the world has lost its colors. When we get so lonely and dejected. When we cry. When you feel that the rest of the world is happy and you are not. No movement. No charm. When these times happen, do not succumb to the temptations of giving up. Life is a Leveller. Yes, to live is to suffer and the only way to be happy is to suffer willingly. Perhaps then, we can become the sovereign of our own destiny.
I wish all readers Good Luck, God speed in all their future endeavors.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
When I say conscious and unconscious, I do not mean that there are any fixed boundaries between the two. There are none. It depends on you whether you are less conscious or more conscious. Anger makes you less conscious (read unconscious) while deceasing life of yours or your soul mate makes you more conscious. But believe me when you are in presence of unconscious, so to speak, nothing could be more familiar……
What you see when unconscious is your reality, but society has created so many layers in order that you will not be aware of it. You will find a different individual all together. Then you cannot deceive yourself; you will certainly know what you are. If you want to create massive changes within your life, you have to change what is acceptable to you.
Whatever your current position is, there is most certainly room for advancement. Focus on long term growth & accomplishments. I reckon, at the end of the day, you want to go back to bed and be proud of what you have done. Focus on that reason, and while you are at it, might as well make it a joyful, pleasant experience.
There are tons of help available out there, but it's up to you to glue all the pieces together to figure out your own path. If there was one such piece of advice that could resolve all issues in one shot, then everyone would succeed……Such is not life as we know……
……Close your eyes and encounter the unconscious…… So next time you stuck with something, remember, It isn't coming from outside, it's coming from inside. You see, motivation can take a 180 turn simply by changing your perception.
The way I see it, it's a little bit like work, but that's why you've got an unconscious zone ;-)…… Smile and be happy ……
Saturday, April 3, 2010
You are right!! Opening eyes with a smile and purpose is what all of us desire. You can always find someone richer, someone with a bigger car, someone with a nicer house, and someone better looking around you. Trying to find happiness with rivalry is impossible. We need to focus on the right venues in search for the elusive happiness. For me, there is only one invariable thing in this world. We all have 24 hours per day; nothing more, nothing less. No one has an advantage over another. Think about it. It’s all about how you manage your time and how you perceive its use.
Make your Time and Money work for you. File a Flight Plan.
The real secret of success consists of three major factors: First, you must be absolutely clear about your happiness flight’s destination. Determine exactly what it is that you want to achieve. Secondly, “take off” toward your goal with no guarantees of success, and then lastly make continual course rectifications and betterment until you finally succeed. The greatest experiences of your life are still to be experienced.
Believe in yourself. This is a great time to be alive. Make more money now. Yield highest income of your life. Best days of your life still lie ahead of you. Justify your presence.
How do you get what you want? It’s simple; all you have to do is to have a plan! And having a plan isn’t enough…..It has to be a Flight Plan….Not just giving lip service to excellence, but putting every part of yourself into achieving it...
I am “taking off!”